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Don’t interrupt me
It was all planned out.
My morning. My day. Every hour had been properly labeled. I even left the house a little early to give myself some cushion.
I walked into the coffee shop where I love to write…
…and was promptly interrupted. Usually I can order my coffee with an extra shot of espresso, pop open my MacBook Pro and stuff my headphones in my hears so fast that no one dares approach.
But not today.
There he was, blocking the start of my day, an old friend with much to share. (Which he did…at length). It felt like the scene fro Monty Python and the Holy Grail when Sir Lencelot tries to cross the Bridge of Death, but must first answer three questions.
My plan was ruined.
How dare he. Didn’t he know I only had an hour to hustle on a project before my first meeting started? Didn’t he know my son had a doctor’s appointment? Didn’t he know my schedule for the day didn’t have any wiggle room?
No. Of course he didn’t.
For the first half of the conversation, I was looking for a way out. (Ever been there?) I was done before he even began.
Then…he shared a story. (Which wasn’t short, and had several subplots).
The story was about how a few days ago, his life had also been interrupted. It was about how he didn’t want to deal with it. He figured if he just ignored it, the situation might go away. It didn’t. It stayed until he finally understood and embraced his role in it.
For this old friend, he thought the people in the situation would just end up using him…instead…he was used by God because he didn’t abandon the interruption.
And there it was.
The reality is, while we slave over our calendars and intricate schemes, many times God is waiting for us in the interruptions…in the margins.
A couple thoughts:
- Don’t use interruptions as an excuse to be lazy
- Don’t leave an interruption until you understand your role in it.
We’re highly trained to brush people off…to the point where even our own children sometimes have to call for us 3 or 4 times before we answer. Deep down I convince myself it’s because I’m focused, but really it’s because I’m selfish.
Remember this…
People are always more important than plans.
People are always more important than hustle.
People are always more important than projects.
People are always more important than politics.
People are always more important than theology.
People are always more important than my ego.
Embrace interruptions. Rarely are they a waste of time…in fact, you never know when an interruption might just change everything.
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And…to my dear friend this morning…thank you for interrupting me.
